Tired of, Sick of, and "FED UP" with the Mess that you are going through in your marriage? If yes, then continue reading. I know that you may hear things like "This is your season, your break-thru, your hour, your time, your year", "Oh, God gone work it out!", "God is getting you ready for ministry!", and yet your time, or your great ministry hasn't come yet. ( remember that your marriage is a great ministry within itself also) If you can just continue to hold on, trusting Christ, standing on His promises by walking to the heartbeat, tune, & to the flowing of God in obeidence, then yes, your time will come. We are in a spiritual warfare wth evil all around us. It's the evil spirit that has a grip on your spouse that causes them to act out & to rebel against the Truth of God's word. (PRAY FOR THEM)
We are to win them without a word & not beat them over the head with scripture according to 1st Peter 3. If we continue to do things our way then we are Responsible for pushing them further away from Christ. Obeying is better than sacrifice. God called us to obey His word & not be the Savior of our spouse. I know it hurts but Christ can only save them. We are the water that He uses to pour out into the marriage relationship. It's our lifestyle that will win them. If God says be quiet, then obey. Don't be moved by your circumstances which can lead to disobeying God. Don't allow your circumstances, people, or allow your spouse to dictate to how you will respond to a situation or to your marriage. Take it to God & Tell on the one who has hurt & offended you. It's ok to be a "Tattle Tell" with our Father. I do it ALL the time & MY DAD always intervenes. I know that you're "FED UP" with the arguing, fussing, & fighting in your marriage. You feel as if you have come to a dead end.
Divorce shoots out of your mouth every week. (LIFE & DEATH IS IN THE POWER OF YOUR TONGUE) You feel as if you are all alone as if you are the only one who really cares for and is fighting to hold the marriage together. This is what the enemy wants you to think. He wants you to give in to your emotions BUT GOD SAYS, "NOT SO!" Satan wants you overwhelmed, depressed, worn out physically, mentally, & emotionally drained by your marriage. He wants you to have a nervous breakdown. He gets you by coming through your emotions & thoughts. God says put on the whole armour of God that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil quenching every fiery dart of the wicked. The enemy doesn't play fair. He throws darts & he hates you. HE ALSO HATES WHAT GOD IS DOING IN, THROUGH, AROUND, WITH, & TO YOU. He is soooo mad at you. Ephesians 6:10-18
When you recognize who the enemy is, then you will be able to disarm him & all of his lies by speaking God's Truth and by standing on God's Promises. God is after making us holy as He is holy. Without holiness, NO ONE CAN SEE GOD. NO ONE WILL BE WITH GOD WITHOUT BEING TRANSFORMED INTO HIS IMAGE. God's desire is for His bride to be ready for Him without spot, wrinkle, or blemishes.
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TRANSFORMATION***
Marriage is part of our transformation process because now we live with a person not realizing that we have to get to know them alot more. Love is the key. Love covers all. Love is patient, longsuffering, kind, thinks no evil, not prideful, rejoices in the TRUTH, & never fails. (1st Corinthians 13 :2-8) We say our spouse has changed but we both are changing & transforming because we are together all day every day. Transformation is a complete change into something with an improved appearance or usefulness. Transformations are very tough especially if you are doing it without the help of Christ. Transformation means that God is changing you, altering you, fitting you for His use & purpose. PCWives if you have a dress that needs altering, you will be fitted, measured, possibly poked by needles, & sized in order for it to be a perfect fit for your body's shape. We go through changes so that we can fit our Father's image. Your attitude is being altered so that it can be transformed like our Father's in Heaven. Your lives, desires, egos, mind, conversations, friends, & all is being altered right now so that you can be transformed to look, act, walk, think, desire, talk, befriend, & be like Christ. All else has failed, nothing else has worked, you've done YOU too long, so now it's just time to SELL OUT to Christ my friend & do it His way. ALLOW THE TRANSFORMATION PROCESS TO BEGIN NOW. Refrain from & STOP calling your spouse a DEVIL or thinking that they are a DEVIL. (Yes, God shows you the evil spirit that is operating through your spouse but it's to pray for your spouse & not to pass judgement & condemn them to hell. We are not our spouses JUDGE. There is only ONE JUDGE.) So as a man thinketh in his heart, so is he. Speak Life Over Your Loved Ones & Circumstances!
REMEMBER THAT WE ARE IN A SPIRITUAL WARFARE, WE ARE FIGHTING SOMETHING THAT IS UNSEEN. USING GOD'S WORD IN PRAYER WILL CHANGE THINGS. READ YOUR INSTRUCTION MANUAL NOW ON HOW TO DISARM THE ENEMY!
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In Love,
AK Dixon
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