FED UP WITH MARRIAGE???

FED UP***
Tired of, Sick of, and "FED UP" with the Mess that you are going through in your marriage? If yes, then continue reading. I know that you may hear things like "This is your season, your break-thru, your hour, your time, your year", "Oh, God gone work it out!", "God is getting you ready for ministry!", and yet your time, or your great ministry hasn't come yet. ( remember that your marriage is a great ministry within itself also) If you can just continue to hold on, trusting Christ, standing on His promises by walking to the heartbeat, tune, & to the flowing of God in obeidence, then yes, your time will come. We are in a spiritual warfare wth evil all around us. It's the evil spirit that has a grip on your spouse that causes them to act out & to rebel against the Truth of God's word. (PRAY FOR THEM)

We are to win them without a word & not beat them over the head with scripture according to 1st Peter 3. If we continue to do things our way then we are Responsible for pushing them further away from Christ. Obeying is better than sacrifice. God called us to obey His word & not be the Savior of our spouse. I know it hurts but Christ can only save them. We are the water that He uses to pour out into the marriage relationship. It's our lifestyle that will win them. If God says be quiet, then obey. Don't be moved by your circumstances which can lead to disobeying God. Don't allow your circumstances, people, or allow your spouse to dictate to how you will respond to a situation or to your marriage. Take it to God & Tell on the one who has hurt & offended you. It's ok to be a "Tattle Tell" with our Father. I do it ALL the time & MY DAD always intervenes. I know that you're "FED UP" with the arguing, fussing, & fighting in your marriage. You feel as if you have come to a dead end.

Divorce shoots out of your mouth every week. (LIFE & DEATH IS IN THE POWER OF YOUR TONGUE) You feel as if you are all alone as if you are the only one who really cares for and is fighting to hold the marriage together. This is what the enemy wants you to think. He wants you to give in to your emotions BUT GOD SAYS, "NOT SO!" Satan wants you overwhelmed, depressed, worn out physically, mentally, & emotionally drained by your marriage. He wants you to have a nervous breakdown. He gets you by coming through your emotions & thoughts. God says put on the whole armour of God that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil quenching every fiery dart of the wicked. The enemy doesn't play fair. He throws darts & he hates you. HE ALSO HATES WHAT GOD IS DOING IN, THROUGH, AROUND, WITH, & TO YOU. He is soooo mad at you. Ephesians 6:10-18

When you recognize who the enemy is, then you will be able to disarm him & all of his lies by speaking God's Truth and by standing on God's Promises. God is after making us holy as He is holy. Without holiness, NO ONE CAN SEE GOD. NO ONE WILL BE WITH GOD WITHOUT BEING TRANSFORMED INTO HIS IMAGE. God's desire is for His bride to be ready for Him without spot, wrinkle, or blemishes.
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TRANSFORMATION***
Marriage is part of our transformation process because now we live with a person not realizing that we have to get to know them alot more. Love is the key. Love covers all. Love is patient, longsuffering, kind, thinks no evil, not prideful, rejoices in the TRUTH, & never fails. (1st Corinthians 13 :2-8) We say our spouse has changed but we both are changing & transforming because we are together all day every day. Transformation is a complete change into something with an improved appearance or usefulness. Transformations are very tough especially if you are doing it without the help of Christ. Transformation means that God is changing you, altering you, fitting you for His use & purpose. PCWives if you have a dress that needs altering, you will be fitted, measured, possibly poked by needles, & sized in order for it to be a perfect fit for your body's shape. We go through changes so that we can fit our Father's image. Your attitude is being altered so that it can be transformed like our Father's in Heaven. Your lives, desires, egos, mind, conversations, friends, & all is being altered right now so that you can be transformed to look, act, walk, think, desire, talk, befriend, & be like Christ. All else has failed, nothing else has worked, you've done YOU too long, so now it's just time to SELL OUT to Christ my friend & do it His way. ALLOW THE TRANSFORMATION PROCESS TO BEGIN NOW. Refrain from & STOP calling your spouse a DEVIL or thinking that they are a DEVIL. (Yes, God shows you the evil spirit that is operating through your spouse but it's to pray for your spouse & not to pass judgement & condemn them to hell. We are not our spouses JUDGE. There is only ONE JUDGE.) So as a man thinketh in his heart, so is he. Speak Life Over Your Loved Ones & Circumstances!
REMEMBER THAT WE ARE IN A SPIRITUAL WARFARE, WE ARE FIGHTING SOMETHING THAT IS UNSEEN. USING GOD'S WORD IN PRAYER WILL CHANGE THINGS. READ YOUR INSTRUCTION MANUAL NOW ON HOW TO DISARM THE ENEMY!

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In Love,
AK Dixon
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Before The Glory, You Need A Story!!! God Is Making You!!

GOD IS YET FAITHFUL!!!!!!! He STILL has a plan & purpose for Everything that you are going thru. BUT FIRST, Our Lord has to Establish, Make, Start, & Set you up for something! Don't bail out!

He is perfecting (accomplishing, sharpening, ironing, qualifying) you for EVERY good work to do His will. He has to prepare (train, equip) you for your destiny (calling, purpose) first. It's a long, hard road but it's a road well worth it when you KNOW that you will be with HIM on the other side one day!
So before you can START your ministry or ministries whether world-wide mega ministries, a booming business, a great home ministry, or a whatever ministry, you MUST go thru FIRST. You have to die to alot of things. Before a seed can grow into a beautiful flower, it must die first. Before you are raised in strength & power, you must first become weak in order to gain the power of Jesus Christ. Before you are raised in glory, you will be dishonored first. 1st Corinthians 15:36-44. You will have to experience your FIRST BREAK-DOWN before getting your FIRST BREAK-THRU. Before the GLORY, you need a STORY!
DADDY WILL NEVER LEAVE US NOR FORSAKE US! DON'T BE AFRAID, OR WORRIED INTO THINKING THAT GOD DOESN'T HAVE A PLAN FOR YOUR LIFE! HE DOES! HE TOLD ME SO! READ BELOW HIS PROMISES MADE TO US ALL. Vows & Promises are to assure somebody (US) that something will certainly happen or be done!!!!!!!! HE CAN'T LIE BECAUSE HE IS GOD!!!

Philippians 1:6 Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ.

Hebrew 13:20-21 Now the God of peace, that brought again from the dead our Lord Jesus, that great shepherd of the sheep, through the blood of the everlasting covenant, make you perfect in every good work to do his will, working in you that which is wellpleasing in his sight, through Jesus Christ; to whom be glory for ever and ever. Amen.

To God Be All the Glory,
Signed AK

WHAT! Forgive When I Was Hurt!

At some point or time in our lives, things happened where we seemed to have no control. We get hurt, lied on, cheated on, mistreated, misused, or abused. Whatever it was that have happened to us has greatly affected us or changed us somehow or another. Some may have cheating spouses or spouses who have cheated in the past. Now this past has brought a child into the future of your marriage. Some may have been lied on or gossipped about by someone in your church or by a family member. Some were brutally raped and made to feel ashamed, disgusted, and guilty. Someone may have been misused by someone that you thought was a good friend but all they wanted was your money, clothes, shoes, or bed (get my drift). Some are hurting because of the ever enduring pain of childhood abuse. Whether the abuse was physical, sexual, verbal, or psychological abuse. You were abused!
Nothing or no one can convince you that you aren't hurting way down deep on the inside. But you cover up all your hurt and pain for no one else to see. When you talk about it, it hurts. You may cry or you may hold it in on the inside but you are truly hurting because you say no one knows or feels your pain. Rage begins to feel your soul when the person who has hurt you comes into your presence. If you desire to know what's truly in your heart towards the one who has hurt you. Then, it's after they have come into your presence do you realize that you truly hadnt forgiven. All sorts of things on the inside will start to go off. Red flags go up. You feel slightly intimidated or disrespected. Your flesh starts to rise and flare up. Your skin crawls. Your eyes stretch or roll. You bite your lips and ball your mouth up. Your emotions and mind are all over the place while trying to keep it all together. Your face may or may not smile but your spirit turns it's nose up at them just enough to let them know that you STILL DON'T LIKE THEM. When saying hi to them, all of a sudden you sound all sophisticated when saying, the words "HELLO" as if you have arrived. You don't know which emotion you want to let out. Your insides are boiling like hot water. Steam is poppin off you just like when water begins to pop up after it hits that high rolling boil. You want to let them have it, right then and right now. Now, I'm I telling the truth or what?

By all means you know what happened to make you feel this way. You know your pain. You know every single detail although you try so hard to forget about it but it just doesn't seem to leave you. You ask yourself why do I have to go through this? You don't understand it. You don't like it. You are fed up! You don't even want to deal with it. You want your space and never have them to come around you. You feel like death or suicide is the only way out BUT IT'S NOT! You say that it's unfair that you have to bless your enemies, pray for them who despitefully use you, feed them, give them something to drink, do this, do that, and then have to LOVE them too Lord! Yes, Show love, Act it out, Dont just say it. Love, is a hard word to express right now Lord because they have no remorse, they are still the same, they this, they that, they, they, they.

I read God's word about love and forgiveness pretty often. I have listened to others speak on love and forgiveness. These are some things that I have personally heard. "Oh, just let it go and move on" with little compassion for you or for your situation. "With Time, the healing will begin." "Oh, just write all of your problems down on a piece of paper and leave it at the altar or take the paper and go burn it and tell the devil that you gots the victory." "A new year, a new beginning, all your problems will be gone". "It's been years and you should have forgiven already." "Pour some salt in your hands, go outside on a windy day and allow the wind to blow the salt (your problems) away." "Turn around three times and God will remove it". "Run around the church and watch what God will do". "Give your best sacrificial offering and God will move that thang in 30 days". "Come on down and let's cast out the demon of unforgiveness." (Note: Forgiveness is voluntarily done by an individual, not by someone casting it out of you. Because it will come back 7 times stronger if you aren't voluntarily and willing to forgive). "Take my cloth home with you and God will do it". I have heard it all since I have been in the gospel. But also faith without works is dead.
 
If you want something badly, you go after it. If you want love and forgiveness, then you go after God's Own Heart. You begin to seek Him intimately. Imitate Him daily by applying, doing, acting out, and performing His word. (pausing to say Thank You Jesus!) You can't JUST say I forgive & stop here. You must have a desire, a want, a craving, a yearning to forgive and allow the Lord to move in and through you at all times. Sometimes you want it so badly that you, yourself will bring more pain to yourself and the situation if not lead by the Holy Spirit. What I mean is that when your desire to forgive is so deep to please the Lord, you can actually move in your own flesh by going to your offender with the right intentions in mind to say that I love you and forgive you, but once you are in their presence, your emotions begin to take over & you find out that you werent as ready as you thought you were. Things are out of control again & now they have something against you especially if you are a professing Christian. They tell everybody they can that you are not a real Christian and how much of a fool you have acted. Although, they were the one who has hurt you. Now, this is another matter that you have to bring before God to keep you from going right back to square one, unforgiveness. So you moved in your own timing and not in God's timing. But God understands and still loves you. Just learn from it & move on. If you do have a yearning in your soul to forgive, God can work with your heart including your every emotion. This is what He wants, a heart of flesh.

It is done by God's grace. But what I have found out and have come to know and understand is that nothing can be done without abiding (staying in, surviving in, remaining in) Christ. It's a healing journey. A journey is a gradual (ongoing, continuing, slow but sure) passing (transition) from one state (situation, level) to another place regarded as more advanced. Basically, you will continue to move up and out of the situation that you are in, to a more advanced, higher level so as long as you remain in Christ. Hallelujaaaaaah!! again Jesus! Stay on your journey and you will eventually find what you've been praying and asking the Lord for in prayer.
 
I heard a man say that you can forgive but you can never forget because it's as if you are cutting away part of the brain. I know that this is true because I can never forget the pain that I have suffered BUT I CAN TRULY FORGIVE. Some memories do fade with time and by God's grace. But when something has brought much pain and misery to your life, it's hard to forget or to let go, but not with Christ! It's as if you are re-living it over and over again, day after day. That's why it's so hard for some people to forgive a person who bumps into them by mistake, steps on their shoes, spills something on their outfit, gets mad over $2 or over any amount of money, gets mad about china ware, or is easily angered about small things because they havent first dealt with the root cause of the problem. Love is not easily angered. It didnt just start with a piece of china ware or $2. This spirit derived and came from somewhere, sometime ago. It has been brooing for a long time and now everyone who gets in your path will feel your wrath. You are like a terrorist to your family and to all the ones who are in your life. No one wants to be around a person like this. Your looks are very intimidating and threatening to others.

 When true forgiveness takes place, our spirit is so cool and calm. We arent easily angered anymore. When that thing comes back which had been AFFECTING our mind before, it cant affect us now the way that it used too. When it comes into our mind, it has no effect, nor power anymore because we have the power and the authority over it, to cast it down. Our thinking is no longer the same. Our mind doesn't take us to that place of pain anymore. It can no longer have a hold on us because now we have the TRUTH (Abide in Christ). The enemy can't have your mind if you abide in Christ. He can't steal your joy, have your peace, if you abide in Christ. By abiding in Christ, our minds are being transformed and renewed. God says that He will keep us in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on Him. Isaiah 26:3.
Take on a mind of Christ. STAY, ABIDE, SURVIVE, CONTINUE, REMAIN IN CHRIST. This is the only way to truly let go of all the hurt and pain that you are enduring. Godly counseling is good but remember first that JESUS CHRIST AND HIS HOLY SPIRIT IS "THE WONDERFUL COUNSELOR"! SEEK ye FIRST the Kingdom of God and His Righteousness and these things (love and forgiveness) will be added unto you. Matthew 6:33. God supplies our every need to move into a state of forgiveness. He will do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think according to the power that works in us! Eph 3:20 and Philippians 4:19.
God is cutting away at this thing so as you're reading! Hallelujaaaaaaaaaah!!! He is doing it! Trust Him and fall in Daddy's Arms. Bathe in His presence daily. He loves you. He didnt cause your pain. He has a good end for you. Jeremiah 29:11. Just continue to hold on. It's the spiritual warfare that's going on right now between God and Satan. He's coming through for you and He's making the crooked places straight. Hold on. He sees and knows all. It's a great JOURNEY my friend. God bless you!

Soli Deo gloria, (Glory to God Alone)
Signed AK
Question: Do you think that Jesus Christ is saying, it's unfair that He forgave US when we despitelly use Him and curse Him?
Was He overcharged?
Oct.13, 2009
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God Hears Your Cry! (Gun Powder!)

When you are fighting for something or for someone, it will basically take all of your might, strength, & power that's in you to continue the fight. That's why you FEEL as if you want to give up & that there's no hope for your situation because it is physically, mentally, & emotionally draining you.

A couple of weeks ago, I had a dream. In the dream, many people & I were being attacked & chased by the enemy. We were all running, ducking, & hiding. I mistakenly ran into the enemy (face to face). I quickly turned & ran away. While running, the enemy aimed a gun at my back & shot the gun at me. I was sure that I was about to die BUT!!!!!!!!!! God intervened & caused the bullet to shatter into thin air. As I looked at the bullet shattering, it began to transform itself back together again.
The bullet turned AROUND & went in the direction of my enemy. I heard the Spirit of the Lord say at the beginning of Sept. that He is Diverting (distracting, changing, turning away) the plans of the enemy. God IS Diverting the plans of your enemies! Wait on the Lord! Great deliverance is coming. He gave GREAT deliverance to the children of Israel from Egypt. He can do the same with a Marriage, Finances, etc.

Your afflictions (sufferings) are breaking you down like gun powder (gun powder is very fine particles). The gases produced by burning gun powder generates (makes) enough pressure to propel (to push, to destroy) a bullet BUT not enough to destroy a gun barrel. You are the gun barrel. God has given you enough power (HEAT) to destroy your enemy. God's power (POWDER) is so consuming that it will be enough to destroy your enemy but He wont allow it to destroy you, the gun barrel. His power will sustain you. Speak His word & pray. It is your gun powder!!!

Exodus 3:7-10



To God be the Glory,
Signed AKD

Why Are My Trials So Intense, LORD?!!

Beloved, do not think it strange concerning the firey trial that is to try you, as though some strange thing happened to you, says the Lord. But REJOICE to the extent that you partake of Christ's SUFFERINGS, that when His glory is revealed, you may also be glad with exceeding JOY! 1st Peter 4:12-13.

Do you feel as if God has no plan or future for your life? (Jermiah 29:11) Are you wondering where is the sunshine, Lord? Is ALL hope gone? Why am I suffering so much?

These are only a few questions which come into our mind when we are going thru a test or trial in life. You may feel as if your trials & tests are all for nothing. But what is a testimony without a test? You may feel as if you have all the right words, the right scriptures, & the right things to say to someone else who has problems but it's not working for you or for your situation.You may seem as if you are living this life to encourage others & your own life is a mess with no encouragement in sight. But there is hope! Hope & joy in Jesus Christ! The joy of the Lord is your strength! Continue to Lean on Him in the tough times in your life. While leaning on Him, your total dependency on Him will re-direct your focus to His will & away from your problems.

Your trials & tests may be so severe & so intense that you feel it's too much to continue on. (Yes, You Can!) You may have asked the Lord for a deeper, higher calling & He is giving you what you have desired. God knows HOW MUCH you can bear. Some may have asked for the higher calling (any Hannahs or Jabez reading), some may have dreams & visions about your calling (any Zechariahs, Josephs, or Samuels reading), some may hear God speak things into their spirit about their calling (any Jeremiahs, Ezekiels, or Isaiahs reading), or God may speak to you face to face (any Moses or Abrahams). Either way you are doomed for a GREAT DESTINY!

It's only to make you into the vessel that He desires in order for you to be able to stand like a tree by the rivers of water that brings forth its fruit in its season, whose leaf also shall not wither. AND whatever you do SHALL prosper. Psalm 1:3.

Don't allow the enemy to deceive you. Keep trusting in the Lord. You have someone else's break thru in this test & trial. Stay focused. Get alone with the Lord. Determine to know Him & His voice. Get alone with Him to weed out everything & every voice that you are hearing. Sometimes you may not know which direction to go. You may be confused & start to question God because someone else or something else has gotten into your spirit. But the solution is to get by yourself ALONE with God to weed out every voice so that He will direct your path according to Proverbs 3:5-8.




Soli Deo gloria, (Glory to God Alone)
Signed AKD